In My Atmosphere

"Hi, I would date you, but I'd refuse to hook-up. I believe I'd be worth the wait: the seconds, the minutes, the hours, the days you spend on me because you know what? I'd wait for you too. Perhaps one day it'll be you and I but perhaps you're meant for someone else, but believe me...whichever way life takes us, this is going to be beautiful, and if you're looking for someone to stick around, you can't give up too quickly or you'll be sending the wrong signal :)"

Asked by Anonymous

Apparently I know you….? Also, understand my last post was more of a “if only” post. Hook-ups aren’t really my thing…I mean they could be, I just haven’t done that/have a burning desire to do so. Now I’m just trying to figure out who the hell you are….freakin’ anons messing with my head and stuff.

"I feel like you care too much about being in a relationship. I don't mean that in a bad way. But have you ever thought that maybe having a girlfriend isn't always the answer? Or maybe you should just stop looking. I know this is cliche, but sometimes things find you. You don't have to find them. Stop searching. Take a break. Relax. If you just stop worrying about it, it'll find you. I promise. You seem like a great guy, any girl would be lucky to have you. You just have to let her find you."

Asked by Anonymous

I know having a girlfriend isn’t always the answer. I’ve been single for 3 or 4 ish years now…something like that and I’m getting a long just fine. I just like the idea of the things that come with a relationship. And I have stopped searching trust me, if I could search any less I’d be a corpse. I’m not worried about something finding me or me finding it or whatever, and there are all sorts of cliche sayings for this scenario…about the great guy thing, when I let a girl who seems to think the same and DATES me not just becomes my friend I’ll let you know anon…I’ll let you know.

"You’ve been spending all your time, searching for a sign, that’s never gonna look the way you want it."

John Mayer - If I Ever Get Around to Living

"Give your heart then change your mind, you’re allowed to do it. Cause God knows it’s been done to you and somehow you got through it."

“Age of Worry” - John Mayer

"Human beings do dumb shit. You do dumb shit. She does dumb shit. Everyone does dumb shit. Then, every once in a while, we have a moment where we don’t do dumb shit, and then we throw a goddamned parade and we forget all the dumb shit we did. So what I’m saying to you is, don’t do something, or not do something, to punish someone because you think they did something dumb. Do what you want to do, because it’s what you want to do."

Shit My Dad Says excerpt from an ask men article

I need to keep this in the front of my mind for a while.